Saturday, January 18, 2014

Ways to Keep Monogamy Hot!

In the first stages of a relationship, you and man are more than likely having mind-blowing sex. Everything is new, you are no longer shopping around for a special someone, and after all that dating game business, you're both surging with sexual electricity. But, after a while, things start to slow down in the sack and life does that "go on" thing. Everyone knows that if you're not staying passionate, things can become dull.

To keep things bangin' in the bedroom and in your monogamous relationship, takes maintenance. You must freshen things up and use your imagination so your honey doesn't lose interest. This will allow your romance to blossom into a pleasurable, long-lasting experience that will help you bond physically and emotionally. These tantalizing tips will have him throbbing for some together time and make the sex super exciting!

Flirt Like Crazy

As a former single lady, you know that your alluring charm will tickle his senses and set his mind on you. Be sure to give him those manly compliments that involve his strength, size, and stamina. Men love to hear about how they make you feel physically. Tell him secret things you love about his body; things that you have never told him. Kiss his neck while you whisper to him how good he smells and let him know that he turns you on.

Wine and Dine

A date night is crucial to the growth of your relationship in general. And, you need to remind him of why he asked you to be his woman. If he cannot set the plans, surprise him with dinner, whether it is at home or at a restaurant. At this time, make him forget all the stressful events of the day with your witty jokes and fabulous and continuous smile. Giggle at his jokes and he will feel like a school boy for sure, and believe it or not, he loves the sound of your laugh.

BIG-TIME Foreplay

After a night of flirty fun, take him home, on a mission to please. To-be-sure, he loves to feel your hands all over him, so be all dominant and make him lay down stark naked and give him an awesome full-body massage. He will not be able to hide his smile while you give him tons of this physical attention. Use your power here to tease his body by touching him intimately as well but don't over do it yet. When you get down to the serious foreplay, use your tongue to make him crazy over you. Making out is a great way to work you both up without spoiling the passion. Be sure to lick all the cut lines on his body and throw in some petting. This will light his fire.

Get Dirty

Sometimes your partner needs to feel like he is single, to give him that feeling of excitement. To satisfy this urge you need to do some things that may be out of your normal character. Instead of the usual methods of undressing the normal missionary position, get a little bold.

 Perform a strip tease that will leave him wondering where you got those moves. Stripper fitness programs will help you to prepare for this type of treat. And, brush up on your position and technique knowledge, then let him have it by surprise, of course. You can even use videos and toys to entice him further, just be sure that he is into it.

Ladies, these steps are sure to keep him wanting you, even after he has seen you in sweat pants. If you have some additional tips, tell me about them in the comments below. I would also love to hear how these tips benefited you.  Be sure to like and share...Kisses! 

Saturday, January 4, 2014

6 Signs That He is Lying

It seems that the guy you have decided to give your time to is pretty comfortable with you. You are confident in the progress of the relationship. But lately, something isn't quite right. He is different or distant; maybe less interested. As you begin to ask questions, you see a side of him that you haven't experienced before. According to his reaction, you may be wondering if he is lying to you...hiding something. These signs will let you know if he is telling tales, or if you are overreacting.

His Attitude Changes 

If he is normally a down-to-earth kind of guy and is comfortable with speaking to you face to face, but suddenly starts to mumble when he is telling about his day, he could just have a tooth ache, but if not, turn on the observation radar. He may then try to distract you in the middle of his explanation, complimenting you on your new manicure that he never regularly notices. This may be an attempt to drop the subject. He may also seem fidgety, sweaty, or unusually agitated.

Lack of Eye Contact

I know a couple of people who do not meet me eye-to-eye, simply because they are shy. But you know your guy. If he has a hard time making eye contact when you are wondering why he ditched you on date night, then he very well, may be conjuring up a story. This sign also shows the person to be a bad liar. Not only that but they are afraid of you finding out by looking into those peepers. The reason for this is, he knows that you notice a change; a shift in the axis of your relationship and that his behavior has been different.

Response Delay

Whether you are texting or speaking in person, long pauses are definite lie indicators when it involves
you searching for relationship reassurance. He should not have to think about his feelings for you or
about what he did while out with the fellas the night before, when he didn't come home. Truth flows easily from a person's mouth. They should not have to ponder it.

Abruptly Defensive

Inner guilt is the greatest enemy of a liar. It will remind him constantly of his dirty deeds, which will cause the feeling of shame. This is hurtful and can quickly trigger the emotion of anger. Moreover, if this person is determined to hide his deeds and if he has wronged you, it is bound to have an impact on how you are treated. You will become the reflection of the guilt that is in him at that time and his own paranoia of the situation will lead him to believe that you already know. So, when you ask a question, he may snap back at you with questions like, "what did I do now" He may turn it around on you, which leads us to the next sign.


Momma always said that if he is accusing with no good reason he might be doing it. Well she was right (as usual). He may feel the need to get off of some of that guilt, thinking by chance you may carry some of it. He doesn't want to come out looking like the bad guy, so why not tear you down a bit to make you look as shady as he, and is a clear indication that he is attempting to cover something.

Your Intuition

Women have a crazy, strong sixth sense. We can tell you when the baby is going to cry, and will pick up the phone just before it rings. It is a gift. We also feel tension just like everyone else. Pay attention to your inside self. If the situation seems weird, question it. You are usually right, and that is not just a biased comment made by a woman. This goes for men as well. People are equipped with observation skills. If it walks like a duck, and talks like a get the picture.