Saturday, January 4, 2014

6 Signs That He is Lying

It seems that the guy you have decided to give your time to is pretty comfortable with you. You are confident in the progress of the relationship. But lately, something isn't quite right. He is different or distant; maybe less interested. As you begin to ask questions, you see a side of him that you haven't experienced before. According to his reaction, you may be wondering if he is lying to you...hiding something. These signs will let you know if he is telling tales, or if you are overreacting.

His Attitude Changes 

If he is normally a down-to-earth kind of guy and is comfortable with speaking to you face to face, but suddenly starts to mumble when he is telling about his day, he could just have a tooth ache, but if not, turn on the observation radar. He may then try to distract you in the middle of his explanation, complimenting you on your new manicure that he never regularly notices. This may be an attempt to drop the subject. He may also seem fidgety, sweaty, or unusually agitated.

Lack of Eye Contact

I know a couple of people who do not meet me eye-to-eye, simply because they are shy. But you know your guy. If he has a hard time making eye contact when you are wondering why he ditched you on date night, then he very well, may be conjuring up a story. This sign also shows the person to be a bad liar. Not only that but they are afraid of you finding out by looking into those peepers. The reason for this is, he knows that you notice a change; a shift in the axis of your relationship and that his behavior has been different.

Response Delay

Whether you are texting or speaking in person, long pauses are definite lie indicators when it involves
you searching for relationship reassurance. He should not have to think about his feelings for you or
about what he did while out with the fellas the night before, when he didn't come home. Truth flows easily from a person's mouth. They should not have to ponder it.

Abruptly Defensive

Inner guilt is the greatest enemy of a liar. It will remind him constantly of his dirty deeds, which will cause the feeling of shame. This is hurtful and can quickly trigger the emotion of anger. Moreover, if this person is determined to hide his deeds and if he has wronged you, it is bound to have an impact on how you are treated. You will become the reflection of the guilt that is in him at that time and his own paranoia of the situation will lead him to believe that you already know. So, when you ask a question, he may snap back at you with questions like, "what did I do now" He may turn it around on you, which leads us to the next sign.

Accusations

Momma always said that if he is accusing with no good reason he might be doing it. Well she was right (as usual). He may feel the need to get off of some of that guilt, thinking by chance you may carry some of it. He doesn't want to come out looking like the bad guy, so why not tear you down a bit to make you look as shady as he, and is a clear indication that he is attempting to cover something.

Your Intuition

Women have a crazy, strong sixth sense. We can tell you when the baby is going to cry, and will pick up the phone just before it rings. It is a gift. We also feel tension just like everyone else. Pay attention to your inside self. If the situation seems weird, question it. You are usually right, and that is not just a biased comment made by a woman. This goes for men as well. People are equipped with observation skills. If it walks like a duck, and talks like a duck.....you get the picture.

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